As I sit here getting kitty kisses from Gizmo I realize what originally started this whole fiasco.
I read an online article if a cat is restless and constantly causing trouble, its probably a good idea to invest in fish to keep your cat entertained if you are distracted or can’t keep them constantly entertained.
Upon reading this, two thoughts popped in my head. 1. “Thats interesting,” and 2. “I’ve always liked fish too, so why not?”
My parents had given me a joke Spongebob fish aquarium in 2005 to house toy sponge-like animals you drop in water to watch them grow. At that point in time they thought it was funny because I could claim this fake critters were my pets and there wouldn’t be any care involved which was ideal for my hectic work life.
Fast forward to two weeks before Thanksgiving this year. We decided to use the Spongebob aquarium as a starter to see if this was something we would be into for certain. We bought a filter pump after the old one failed to create the bubbles it once did.
Cost: about $10.
After we had let the water run through the filter for a week, we made a trip to Petsmart to purchase a fish. We were so excited. We went in, asked a million questions and tried to make a decision on a beta-fish. We decided on a kind of wimpy looking one, (we always go for the under-dog, or in this case, under-beta) and went to the register with our precious cargo along with her food and water conditioners.
Cost: about $15-$20.
We came home, and put her in her new home. We decided to call her Gilly.
The cats didn’t notice her. Not only did they not notice her, she would even swim to the edge of the tank to investigate what was sitting next to her new home and neither Squeaker nor Gizmo laid eyes on her. We even tried helping the cats to see her by directing their heads in the direction she was moving. Still nothing. Here is photographic evidence…
This didn’t matter to us, we felt we did something amazing, she started gaining color, and even some blue on the tips of her fins. We were so elated we thought she deserved some food. She swallowed the food and quickly spat it back out. We thought this was puzzling.
The next day Jaysen purchased some different Beta food upon learning they can be picky eaters.
Cost: about $5
Everyday we fed her around the same time we fed our cats. Sometimes we tried to perk her up with a treat. Soon we found her to be lethargic and not moving very much. The Tuesday before Thanksgiving, Gilly passed away.
After we buried Gilly and started assessing our feelings, I wasn’t ready to give up yet. I was so upset that it happened and it was something completely avoidable. People kept telling us Betas are the easiest fish to keep, however after our circumstance, we decided to believe that as bunk.
Through much of what we learned in our experience with Gilly, some research, and what we found out from the caretakers at Petsmart, Betas are like Gremlins. You can’t feed them for 24 after you get them, you can only feed them one pellet at feeding times (their stomachs are roughly the size of their eyeballs) and smaller tanks are more susceptible to have changing Ph levels. There were so many rules for keeping a hardy fish in a small tank we decided to think bigger.
We read online bigger tanks were better for maintaining Ph levels. So we went to Petsmart and purchased a 20 gallon fish tank.
Cost: about $80
This wasn’t necessarily a rash decision, we had thought about getting one when we went to purchase Gilly. We brought home the tank and decided this would be our big Christmas gift to each other and split it even down the middle. The tank sat in the spare room for a week to avoid the cats investigating it. Neither of us had the energy to set it up.
A few days after the purchase we realized we needed a tank stand and more gravel. Jaysen ran out before he went to work and purchased one.
Cost: about $40 + $5-$10
The night after that we realized the fish would need plants and scenery to swim around in. Again, we ran to the pet store.
Cost: about $25
The next night we decided to finally break out the tank and test it on the stand. It didn’t work. The stand wobbled even with the stabilizers and the only solution would be to attach it to the wall with L brackets. If this was needed to stabilize it, then we probably shouldn’t even have it in the house. We debated putting it on another piece of furniture but after testing the other furniture out with just my husband crawling on it, we decided putting a fish tank on it wouldn’t be a good idea either. Feeling defeated, we sat down and looked over what we had done. It only just dawned on us at that moment and after we started tallying up the receipts from the months’ worth of fish product purchases, how much we had spent and how much it was going to potentially cost in the future for upkeep and maintenance. Not to mention, we would have to rely on a third party to take care of our fish and aquarium while we were gone on the occasional trip, which as we found, takes a lot of work.
My husband summed it all up, “Weren’t we originally doing all of this for the cats?”
“Yes.” I said.
“Well then why don’t we just play with the cats more?”
I felt so bad, with all the trips to the pet store, all the looking and never buying and then finally buying on some trips, it was not only a waste of time and gas, but it was time spent away from our cats who only want our attention.
Hopefully we made it up to them in the recent days. We’ve not only spent more time with them, but with some of the money from the returns we were able to get Squeaker a day at groomers!
This is what I call…
priceless.
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